I too am married and in a hot woman wants sex LTR with a once married but now divorced woman. It has gone on for now over 15 yrs. At first we like sex starved. We couldn't get enough of each other and both took stupid chances, but lucky for both of us we were very discreet and nobody found out about our LTR. The sex was and still is fantastic. She claims I am the best lover she has ever had and the sex is fantastic. I feel the same way. We also have been like best friends. We talk about each others family and grandkids etc. We talk out problems that we both share in our other lives. times I have wanted to end the affair and be a good husband, but the sex at home was lacking. My wife and I had good sex, but it was lacking in quantity..If we had sex once or twice a month it was a miracle. I would always try to initiate lovemaking whether in the kitchen cooking together or at the table after breakfast etc, but I was always put on the back burner till later. Later never came, so I resorted to my LTR with my lover. I am still stuck in this emotional pull and tug with myself about being honest and true to my wife, but missing the affection, caring and lovemaking I have with my lover, that I want with my wife, but she doesn't care or need it that bad. Be careful in your LTR and examine the whole affair. If you both are falling for each other but do not want to change your life and marriage situations, then you have to be willing to pay the consequences if you get caught, or try to fulfill the same feelings you have with your lover, with your married partner. If that can't be done, then you might end up like me. Good luck